And as with any loss, big or small, time is needed to grieve and to reassess who you are, where you've been and where God wants you to go.Healing is also necessary to follow God's command to" do unto others what you would have them do unto you," (Matthew ).Jennifer's, Samantha's and John's concerns are common, because according to the U. Census Bureau, 19.3 million Americans get divorced each year, and many of them date and eventually remarry.Perhaps you share their concerns, as you're also wondering how you can reenter the dating world after divorce — and do so according to God's standards. Divorce is the death of the dreams you had when you committed yourself "for better or for worse." As a Christian, you can't simply separate from your spouse one day and hit the dating field the next. Even though she has decided to wait a few years until her daughter is grown to reenter the dating scene, she's confused about how to proceed.
I started asking these ghosters why they didn't ask me out on a second date.
They all said the same thing, “Jen, I liked you a lot, but I didn't think you wanted to see me again.”Excuse me, what? Was it my job to let them know I wanted to go out again?
How was I supposed to do that without seeming clingy, obsessed or desperate?
So you don't make the same mistakes that I did while dating, here's advice from six dating coaches on how to let a guy know you're down to see him again, so you actually Throughout the first date, find an excuse to put your hands on him.
Wipe some imaginary dirt off his shoulder, or fix his crooked tie. Unexpected compliments make a huge, lasting impact and are a strong signal that you would like a second date.